Posts Tagged ‘#SelfReflection’

“Everything, if you think about it well, gives you something to think about,” once wrote Friedrich Nietzsche (“Thus Spoke Zarathustra”).

What exactly is thinking? Talking to oneself? Probably not, because combinations of words are merely a simplified representation of thoughts, not their essence. So, when using words as tools for thinking, we are only using labels for things or states and not reaching their core.

Albert Einstein himself stated: “I have no doubt that our thinking takes place mostly without the use of signs (words), and furthermore, to a large extent without the involvement of consciousness. How else can we explain the fact that sometimes a sensation spontaneously amazes us? This amazement arises when the sensation contradicts the world of concepts that has been established within us.”

Another important aspect is the logic of thinking. But does thinking limit itself only to logic? Or does it reach deeper—into the realm of emotions—the kingdom of intuition? Probably so, because giants of science have weighed in on this matter. Since we’ve already mentioned Albert Einstein, he put it this way: “Thinking without intuition is empty, intuition without thinking is blind.”

And so, there is confusion around thinking. However, this should not worry us, because even if we do not know exactly what thinking is, we never cease to fulfill the Cartesian definition of “being,” for as Władysław Grzeszczyk wrote in “Parade of Paradoxes”: “even one who only thinks they think—has the right to consider that they exist.”

Thinking, like any meaningful activity to which we decide to devote time, should provide valuable results. So, what is the most desirable outcome of thinking? In my opinion, it is making decisions and acting upon them.

Ralph Waldo Emerson concluded it simply: “to think is to act,” and he was certainly quite right, just as Henri Bergson affirmed such a style of thinking, to “act like a thinking man, think like a man of action.” So, let’s get to work and remember that “he who thinks only of food while working, surely does not think of work while eating” (Władysław Grzeszczyk). Meanwhile, that’s all the thinking about thinking for today.

John Maxwell once wrote in his book “Developing the Leader Within You”: “You cannot overestimate the unimportance of practically everything”. He might have exaggerated a bit, but he certainly highlighted that instead of “spreading ourselves too thin” and rushing madly towards exhaustion, discouragement, burnout, or even depression, instead of trying to do everything and please everyone, it is worth pausing for a moment.

Pause and conduct an honest assessment of what can be subjected to creative elimination and moved without guilt from the “to do” list to the “not to do” list (the latter is even more important than the former). This kind of decluttering, I feel, allows us to work smarter, not harder, and finally do what truly matters in life.

In my opinion, to distinguish truly important things from the insignificant ones, we need to create space for thinking, give ourselves time to observe and listen, and allow ourselves to play and experiment with different possibilities.

Time for thinking is not an unnecessary luxury. It is a necessity, like daily hygiene. A necessity that grows the faster life moves and the more we are entangled in handling daily “busywork”.

Only conscious self-reflection allows us to see value in everything that happens to us. It prevents a senseless chase to nowhere because life cannot be just hard work—it must include play, fulfillment, relaxation, regeneration, and growth. Play and rest are today – I am convinced – as important as work. We have play in our genes, and we should not forget that. As for regeneration, when we happen to pull an all-nighter for “urgent” tasks, let’s remind ourselves that sleep is not a privilege of the lazy—it is a source of creativity because it enables us to achieve a higher level of mental efficiency.